Group life is not going away. Actually, they are more essential than ever in light of the move away from large classes and programs, and where young churches are meeting in homes and rented facilities. Groups of 6–10 people meeting 2–4 times a month for prayer, study, fellowship and support are still effective and valid expressions of community. Many of us know them well and have grown by leaps and bounds in such settings. They may offer what other gatherings generally cannot. A monthly neighborhood gathering is great for connection, basic sharing of resources and ideas, and serving the needs of the community. Intentional spiritual development, however, is lacking without regular connection with fewer members in an environment where deep change can be provoked and evaluated. While spontaneous connections and impromptu gatherings are essential to communal life, they do not replace the need for focused groups where spiritual guides (shepherds, leaders) can prompt growth and facilitate achievement of the group’s purpose.
Small groups provide a place for intentional personal reflection, learning spiritual practices, gaining wisdom and feedback about habits, decisions and character traits, and for building trust with a few who really know you and your story. This contribution to the kingdom remains a core expression in thriving modern and post-modern churches alike. Though the terminology and structure will vary across movements, the support and nurture provided by small group life is a common thread.
I am excited to see the role of small groups increasing as the value of communal life pervades the church. As the rising generation of leaders creates new expressions of church, new forms of group life will emerge. And I am excited to be among those who are in the midst of the change. Remember, wherever two or three are gathered…